NoT The One: a love Story


Identity, Sex, Anxiety, Polyamory, Death...Mindy Raf dismantles the romantic comedy one intimate moment at a time.

After sold out runs at the People's Improv Theatre, and Off Broadway at 59e59 Theatre, Not The One made it's international debut at the 2017 Edinburgh Fringe Festival for a 26 show run at the Gilded Balloon.

Written and Performed by Mindy Raf

Directed by Tara Elliott

Produced (UK) Civil Disobedience Productions

Weed lube, throuple therapy, & one life-altering text message. With an open mind, heart, and vagina, Mindy Raf demolishes the romantic comedy and the roles we play in it. As Raf demystifies love, loss, and sexuality, she engages her vulnerable, razor-sharp storytelling style to face the complexities of modern love and leave us asking, “could I ever do that?” 

Not The One is Raf's first collaboration with director Tara Elliott ('Shugs & Fat', Burq Off).

upcoming shows:

November 29th & 30th

Cloud City  8:00 PM

85 North 1st Street / Williamsburg, Brooklyn 11249


December 6th The Tank 7PM

312 West 36th Street / First Floor / New York, NY 10018

7:30 PM